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"The dinners are a nice break from the hurried world. Catching up with friends on Wednesdays actually reignites my energy," says one potlucker. Photo: Mali Azima for AOL

Tom Haney is an artist who creates incredibly detailed articulated sculptures out of wood, cloth, metal and found objects. His studio is filled with tools for every sort of job. He has proven his skill with the tiniest of paintbrushes and thinnest of drills. Tom also spent several years in the TV and film industry making props and models. He can pretty much build anything.

Paula Joerling is an illustrator and designer. Her handy-ness shows up more in the way of crafting than it does in renovating, but she'll gladly make the effort when needed. Paula's art appears on calendars, mugs and probably lots of other things we buy and live with. She's been a vegetarian for 27 years and she likes pretty aprons.

Paula and Tom have always enjoyed at-home casual entertaining. They were specifically introduced to the potluck concept three years ago when their friends, Danielle and Raoul, who have since relocated to L.A., invited them over to one of their Wednesday night gatherings. Danielle and Raoul, consummate party throwers, started their tradition in memory and honor of a close friend. In his passing, Danielle says, "It reminded us what matters in life – just being together and breaking bread."

And so the two potluck virgins knew they were onto something good and the rewards of the gatherings were clear. There are the obvious benefits of taste-testing, but beyond that, potluck feeds the soul. It's not just about warming up dishes. It's about spreading warmth, friendship and humor. Potluck connects people. It's about cooking, not out of duty, but out of the desire to share. It's about committing to get your day work done so you can get out of the house or office and physically be with people. It's pretty darn inspirational!

Now Paula and Tom are in the groove. And while the basic players have stayed the same, some have moved, some members are just too busy or kids get sick, and so new friends have entered the 'club.' Their handmade kitchen is integrated into rest of the living space, and is all filled with art and old things collected at different places over time. Tom and Paula's loft provides a special environment from which to host potluck.

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  • Julie Hopkins

    What a great concept. Beautiful photos.

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  • JackRNX

    Who Cares?

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  • CR

    I'm with you. who cares? And there is nothing special about what they do or how they do it. The news is desperate for something newsworthy...pathetic really is all I can say about this story...

  • Limoman

    LOL... Yhis is how White Suburubia Lives People!

    Good For Them!

    My Folks used to have Summer Bar-B-Q's and everyone brought their Own to Cook Plus Badmitton, Jarts and HorseShoes..
    Remember those?

    Ahh. The Good Ol Days.In the Suburbs!

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  • Nancy

    If you don't have anything nice to say just stay out of the comments! It's good tips for those of us who live happy lives and have friends and like to do things like they do!! WE CAN TELL YOU'RE BITTER, HAVE NO FRIENDS AND IS SAD!!!thats why you say mean things............LOSER!!!!

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  • Cyndy

    I liked this...nice to see people having quality time and appreciate their friends and good food....a lot of people on the planet would give anything to enjoy what we take for granted.

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  • leepinlizzy

    I think it is great. Any get together with friends is great if you can do it. Also by them being posted on here for us to see and read about is a good for giving others ideas---- don't you think?

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  • NikonF2-AS

    leepinlizzy, you're right.... who's time is it to collect the house and apt. keys...

  • leepinlizzy

    I think it is great. Any get together with friends is great if you can do it. Also by them being posted on here for us to see and read about is good for giving other ideas----don't you think?













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  • shirley

    Says they rent. They spend a lot of money on remodel for rental. Did they buy it in the end. Think this is nice, but you mention family. no kids??? any of them???

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  • BeckyW

    This might be impressive if Tom and Paula were 20-something college students. I can appreciate a 'Real People' alternative to all the Designer fare, but, well.........when identical paint-by-numbers art is the pièce de résistance.? I don't want to criticize these nice people, but I was expecting more 'pop' than that.
    However, the Caprese Salad looked divine. :-)

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  • Margaret Hardin

    What's so new about pot-luck? And it's not just a white suburban kind of thing. I have been going to "Bob and John's Sunday Night Supper" for years. The hosts and most of us guests live inner-city. There are usually twenty to forty people gathering for great food and great conversation. Those who don't like to cook or don't have the time to cook, do the clean up.

    So what is the big deal about this story. Seems like the featured couple are a bit behind trends if they so recently discovered the joys of pot-luck.

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  • Christine

    Then why are you reading the article and taking the time to post?? Take your negativity soewhere else.

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  • sunshine&smiles

    Oh!, I haven't been to or had a pot luck in years. They are so much fun and everyone is a special part of it, because all bring something yummy for the tummy, and the variety of dishes are usually a recipe that is new to me.
    Hmmmm, nice inspiration.

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  • Leigh Chandler

    Kudos to you Jane, I really enjoyed this story! First of all, unless the geography has changed since I lived in Atlanta ten years ago - this is not suburbia! It is a totally cool area with real pioneer spirited people moving there. With all of the artists, designers, producers - what have you - this is more like SoHo than any suburban neighborhood I have lived in. I would give anything to exchange my current cookie cutter suburban home with something like they have. I also think the whole story is great with the economy the way it is. We are on such a tight budget that I can't even remember the last time I ate out with friends, well ok, a few weeks ago but that was for Dim Sum and that is cheap. What a wonderful and economic way to meet with friends! I also think that the food looked absolutely divine! I would love to see another article sometime about Tom and Paula's artwork, I am always fascinated by creative people and I think this story is exactly what it was meant to portray - Real People Real Kitchens. There are a million blogs out there and magazines that have over the top kitchens that are unattainable for most of us - I like seeing the real thing, thank you!

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  • Di

    Many of you who commented are idiots; why do you care to comment if neighborhood residents want to get to know each other? I think it looks like a great community gathering. This is the way to expand your horizons and not be a negative and ignorant influence whereever you may live....you tiny minded freaks!!!

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